It has gone by so fast. Tonight I just stared at her while I rocked her to sleep- imagining her as a teenager, imagining how I'll feel when I look back and remember these sweet moments. I want to savor it- savor every second.
What I've learned so far that I will try to remember for the next one- and for advice for other first time moms…
1.) Don't worry so much. I spent too much time worrying about her separation anxiety, about bed sharing and when to move her to her crib, about nursing to sleep (should I, shouldn't I)... and all those things just got resolved naturally. I just followed her lead and in time she figured it out and let me know what she needed. And Mike and I figured out what we needed... a Saturday babysitter!
We still have a lot to learn together- but what I've realized is that she tells me when she's ready for the next step, and we go from there. One day at a time.
We still have a lot to learn together- but what I've realized is that she tells me when she's ready for the next step, and we go from there. One day at a time.
2.) Be grateful. Be present. Be flexible.
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| 1/2 of a cake for her 1/2 birthday. Thanks Emily for the idea! |
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| Dayvia didn't get any cake- but we made a wish for her and made sure to eat her portion. |
Sorry to tell you...you never stop worrying, but of course, you won't let her know....I worry, but then I forget what I'm worrying about. When I finally remember, there's something else. So-oo, what's the point, were too busy enjoying the moment and you have so much to enjoy. Did you save a tiny piece of fudge cake? I should have called beautiful Davy to wish her 6 month Happy Birthday. See, something else to worry about. xxxooo
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